Having in laws can be a beautiful experience but it can also be an experience from hell. In laws can unfortunately make or break your relationship. I have had many interesting experiences with my mother in law, some I am proud of and some I am not so proud of. I have learned how to navigate the world of In Laws and have learned many hard lessons along the way. I have also learned many Do’s and Don’ts while being a Daughter-In-Law that I have found has been beneficial in building as well as mending a relationship if ever broken with an in law.
This is my story.
With Love,
THE Daughter-In-Law
The DO’s + DON’Ts of Being A Daughter-In-Law
Dealing With A Monster-In-Law
DO: There must be mutual respect.
DON’T: Call each other out of their name.
DO: Put your child or spouse’s feelings first.
DON’T: Treat the in law or spouse as if they are replaceable even if you believe they are.
DO: Respect the position or role they play in their life.
DON’T: Egg on a bad situation or speak negatively about the parent or spouse.
DO: Speak when you see each other.
DON’T: Use your influence to manipulate the situation to the benefit of your own selfish wants and needs.
DO: Be a listening ear.
DO: Learn when to shut the hell up.
DO: Set clear boundaries for both your spouse and your parents.
Listen to my “Monster-In-Law” full episode below.
“A clingy and possessive mother or father in law who tries to interfere with son/daughters relationship.”
