Episode 25: Spin The Block
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Episode 25: Spin The Block

Hey Loves,

Have you ever thought about spinning the block with an ex? Did the relationship change? At times, we think about an ex and remember the good times but forget about how the relationship affected our self esteem or how we impacted their lives. Have you ever thought about the one that got away? Typically, the one who got away is the one we did not deserve or we maybe we are “the one who got away” and for good reason. But sometimes, we break up because its just not our time and when we learn to love ourselves properly, we ultimately learn to love everyone else properly as well. With that being said, sometimes it’s not the end of your story, it’s the beginning of your adventure.

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Episode 24: Ending Relationships & Moving On
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Episode 24: Ending Relationships & Moving On

Hey Loves,

Breaking up is hard to do. Sometimes even if it is the necessary thing to do, it can feel as though you are making a life and death decision. For some, it very much may be a life and death decision. However, there are ways to end a relationship and move on with your life without creating generational relationship trauma. Here are my do’s and don’t for ending a relationship.

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Episode 21: Mature Relationships v Immature Relationships
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Episode 21: Mature Relationships v Immature Relationships

Hey Loves,

Mature relationships allow us to love and grow old with one another without feeling as though we lost ourselves. Most of us date or get into a relationship without realizing that we aren’t emotionally mature enough to contribute to a healthy relationship. We mist be real with ourselves because if we aren’t, we can become toxic and damage people who will in turn damage someone else.

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Episode 19: Respect or Loyalty
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Episode 19: Respect or Loyalty

Hey Loves,

Would you rather be respected or have someone who is loyal to you? Some people believe that loyalty and respect go hand in hand but truth be told, they are not the same. You can respect someone and not be loyal to them. You can be loyal to someone but not respect them. Do you think loyalty has an expiration date? Should respect have an expiration date? These are questions that we ask ourselves when we are in a tough situation and no longer have someone to turn to.

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Episode 15:  Does Jada Protect Will Like Will Protects Jada or Does She Emasculate Him?
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Episode 15: Does Jada Protect Will Like Will Protects Jada or Does She Emasculate Him?

Hey Loves,

We’ve all heard about how hectic the Oscars were when Will slapped Chris Rock for his G.I. Jane joke but was it truly warranted? We heard a lot about how black women aren’t protected enough but did Will Smith go too far? Was violence the only answer or did Will finally hit a breaking point with the embarrassment he’s been experiencing in his marriage over the last few years and take it out on Chris Rock?

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Episode 06: Toxic Relationships
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Episode 06: Toxic Relationships

Hey Loves,

Toxic Relationships are a dime a dozen. You’ve been through it, your mother has been through it and so has your grandmother and the list goes on and on. It is possible to break the cycle of toxic relationships but you must be able to identify what a toxic relationship is and how to get out of it if you are in fact in one.

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