Episode 22: Wild Sex Stories
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Episode 22: Wild Sex Stories

Hey Loves,

Sex can be wild and fun if you want it to be. It should never be extremely cut dray and straight to the point. Have fun and spice up your sex life like some of these people did in this episode. I would love to hear about some of your wildest experiences in the bedroom.

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Episode 21: Mature Relationships v Immature Relationships
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Episode 21: Mature Relationships v Immature Relationships

Hey Loves,

Mature relationships allow us to love and grow old with one another without feeling as though we lost ourselves. Most of us date or get into a relationship without realizing that we aren’t emotionally mature enough to contribute to a healthy relationship. We mist be real with ourselves because if we aren’t, we can become toxic and damage people who will in turn damage someone else.

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Episode 20: The Psychology of Manipulation
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Episode 20: The Psychology of Manipulation

Hey Loves,

So many of us have been in relationships where we loved someone and thought that love was reciprocated only to later find out that what we were experiencing was not love but in fact was manipulation. However, sometimes we don’t realize what is truly going on in our relationship until it is too late. We talk down on others because they can see what is really going on in our relationship and when they try to tell us, we call them jealous because we are being manipulated into thinking that this is true love when in face, it is all a lie.

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Episode 19: Respect or Loyalty
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Episode 19: Respect or Loyalty

Hey Loves,

Would you rather be respected or have someone who is loyal to you? Some people believe that loyalty and respect go hand in hand but truth be told, they are not the same. You can respect someone and not be loyal to them. You can be loyal to someone but not respect them. Do you think loyalty has an expiration date? Should respect have an expiration date? These are questions that we ask ourselves when we are in a tough situation and no longer have someone to turn to.

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Episode 18: Attempted Double Homicide
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Episode 18: Attempted Double Homicide

Hey Loves,

So many times, we fall in love with someone who we believe will be our forever, only to find out that they will bring us pain unimaginable. They will become our downfall and all we can do is try our hardest to get back up on our two feet and try to make sense of it all. This weeks episode is about a woman who got pregnant by a guy whom she thought would be her forever until she found out that he would be her end.

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Episode 17: My Journey To The Stage
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Episode 17: My Journey To The Stage

Hey Loves,

The road to my college graduation has been a tumultuous one. From the death of my brother to the birth of my son, college seemed like a dream that was never going to become a reality but with the love and support from my family and friends as well as my drive and determination to become the first college graduate of my family, I have finally prevailed. This is my story.

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Episode 16: My Traumatic Birth Story
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Episode 16: My Traumatic Birth Story

Hey Loves,

I have never really talked about my birth story. I have seen so many people talk about how beautiful their birth stories were and I expected mine to be the same however, my birth story was a bit different than what I expected. This is my story.

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Episode 15:  Does Jada Protect Will Like Will Protects Jada or Does She Emasculate Him?
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Episode 15: Does Jada Protect Will Like Will Protects Jada or Does She Emasculate Him?

Hey Loves,

We’ve all heard about how hectic the Oscars were when Will slapped Chris Rock for his G.I. Jane joke but was it truly warranted? We heard a lot about how black women aren’t protected enough but did Will Smith go too far? Was violence the only answer or did Will finally hit a breaking point with the embarrassment he’s been experiencing in his marriage over the last few years and take it out on Chris Rock?

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Episode 14: Comfortable In Their Crisis
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Episode 14: Comfortable In Their Crisis

Hey Loves,

We all know that one friend who always asks for advice and never takes it or they always know they answer but are still in the same shitty predicament. They are comfortable with their crisis and comfortable within their chaos. Stop stressing yourself over them because they can’t level up with you.

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Episode 13: If They Are Still Toxic, Why Are You Still There?!
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Episode 13: If They Are Still Toxic, Why Are You Still There?!

Hey Loves,

If you are still struggling to elevate in life, ask yourself, is it because you aren’t worthy of the elevation or is it because the people who are in your circle are holding you back from your next move.

Stay away from “STILL” people. People who are STILL broke, STILL complaining, STILL borrowing, STILL, hating, STILL childish, STILL insecure, STILL stupid, STILL not making changes in their lives… STILL!

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Episode 12: Heartache, Heart Break and Bouncing Back
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Episode 12: Heartache, Heart Break and Bouncing Back

Hey Loves,

Breaking up is heart to do but sometimes, it is the most necessary thing. But what do you do when you breakup with the love of your life because they just aren’t the one for you and you experience your first heartbreak. Well as a hopeless romantic, heartache, heartbreak and bouncing back can seem almost impossible but remember, if you’re determined, you can get through it and come back stronger and smarter than ever. Here’s my story.

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Episode 11: The Sidekick Valentine’s Day
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Episode 11: The Sidekick Valentine’s Day

Hey Loves,

Sidechicks have taken over in today’s day and age. They lurk in the background constantly laughing at your facade of a happy stable relationship when in reality, your man is pillow talking with Ashley while you work overtime to put food on the table. On the days he says he’s going to play basketball with the boys, he’s beating cheeks with Ashley. On February 15, he isn’t hanging with the boys but taking Ashley on a romantic date and using a whole pack of condoms on Miss Freak Nasty herself.

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Episode 09: Tame Your Kids
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Episode 09: Tame Your Kids

Hey Loves,

Sometimes, we feel as though we are failing our kids. Sometimes, we feel like our kids deserve better. Sometimes, we feel like we aren’t doing enough. Then sometimes we feel like our children push our buttons beyond belief.

Sometimes, our kids are wilding out and they need a little foot up their ass to get them back on track. Sometimes, that is figuratively and sometimes that means literally. Sometimes, they’re acting out because they’re missing something. Sometimes they’re acting our because that’s the only way they can get your attention because they believe youre just too bust to be bothered with them unless they’re getting in trouble so they take the attention no matter the cost. This is my story on disciplining children and how being disciplined as a child impacted me.

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Episode 08: The Struggle Before The Millions
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Episode 08: The Struggle Before The Millions

Hey Loves,

In this day and age, everyone wants to be a millionaire. Everyday I see a new business pop up on Instagram. Sometimes it can be a bit frustrating to see someone selling items that are similar to yours and they are continuously getting sales while you may get one or two orders a month. Entrepreneurship is extremely hard. You must be relentless and determined to not only survive as an entrepreneur but thrive. I have learned so many lessons since I launched my business in November of 2020. I am here to walk you through my mistakes so you don’t make the same mistakes I made.

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Episode 07: Let’s Talk About SEX
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Episode 07: Let’s Talk About SEX

Hey Loves,

Sex, does it mean the same thing to men as it does to women? Does sex have more importance to a woman than a man? Should a married couple have sex a certain about of times week? Should couples be willing to use toys in the bedroom?

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Episode 06: Toxic Relationships
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Episode 06: Toxic Relationships

Hey Loves,

Toxic Relationships are a dime a dozen. You’ve been through it, your mother has been through it and so has your grandmother and the list goes on and on. It is possible to break the cycle of toxic relationships but you must be able to identify what a toxic relationship is and how to get out of it if you are in fact in one.

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Episode 05: Is She The One? Does Size Matter?
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Episode 05: Is She The One? Does Size Matter?

Hey Loves,

What makes a proposal special? Is it how much money your spouse spent on the proposal set up? Is is the size of the ring? How much your spouse money spent on the ring? How elaborate the proposal is? What makes a person worth proposing to? What makes a person worth marrying? These are questions for people who are either in relationships or looking to get into a relationship and are looking to take the next step towards spending the rest of their life with someone.

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Episode 04:  Monster-In-Law
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Episode 04: Monster-In-Law

Hey Loves,

Having in laws can be a beautiful experience but it can also be an experience from hell. In laws can unfortunately make or break your relationship. I have had many interesting experiences with my mother in law, some I am proud of and some I am not so proud of. I have learned how to navigate the world of In Laws and have learned many hard lessons along the way. This is my story.

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Episode 03: Coparenting and Avoiding Baby Mama or Baby Daddy Drama
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Episode 03: Coparenting and Avoiding Baby Mama or Baby Daddy Drama

Hey Loves,

In this day and age, it is almost impossible to date someone who does not have a child from a previous relationship and most times when dating someone who has a child, you hope and pray the coparenting relationship they have is a respectable one. However, that isn’t always the case. There are times when coparenting can be extremely shitty.

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